WOW! There is so much hate out there I can hardly believe it. You guys need to open your hearts a little bit and learn how to love.
You don’t even know the situation and you’re attacking my “defensive” response as if I am parading myself all around town as a genius? You put words into my mouth that I didn’t even say? Pardon me my good friend but that is propaganda in the right light, and we know the kind of people who like to spread propaganda don’t we? …
Speaking of which, I used the “fascism” comment, because I don’t like the idea of anybody simply “smacking” me around because they disagree with me, or because they don’t like my point of view. Yes, it’s an extreme to some people, I understood that when I used the comment. But typically in a stream of intellectuals you don’t expect to find the person who takes the comment to heart and intends to blow it out of proportion… until it happens. At that point you learn from it, you grow from it, and you realize … not everybody keeps an open mind to everything. Does that mean that we ban the word, or dare not speak its name? No, it means we take the effort to enlighten people. I’m really sad about your Grandparents DenSter. That’s a legitimate statement, I honestly feel terrible for anyone who has been a victim of genocide and human cruelty. But you, unfortunately, I will not spare. Because the biggest moral lesson of that encounter for the western culture to learn was “Tolerance”. Tolerance is not the pink elephant in the room; tolerance is complete understanding of a situation. Being able to take it in, breath it in and in the end say “It’s ok to be different, I accept you, because on moral grounds we’re still similar”. So in regards to spasmodic hands of fury beating down on your NAV Admin because you don’t like his point of view or ideas; Yes, I think fascism was appropriate… even if I was slanging it to squeeze the definitive juices from its loins to season my words in the aroma I smelled fit.
Additionally, to take that comment so to heart and use it out of the context it was meant for (fascism abusive vs. fascism genocide) tells me that you are performing some mental gymnastics along the lines. You didn’t see me saying “OMG HE THREATENED TO HIT ME!!!” in a forum. That’s because I took it for what it was… a backhanded insult (no pun inten… yes there is pun, lots of pun, just look for the pun, and when you are done – we’ll have cake).
I don’t know DenSter well… at all. However, it’s hard to spot a “joke” when it’s written in a serious discussion. Some humor is lost on people … QED. I made plenty of comments in my post out of sarcasm, and I honestly didn’t seriously intend to insult DenSter … more or less just provide a defensive point of view to his commentary which seemed to belittle me, rather than just support me. (which is all I really wanted anyway)
I’d like to take a moment to reach out to some of you who think so little of me…
To: Walter; I’m confused. Are you seriously asking me the definition of the world “flailing” after you just called me a pea brain? This baffles me, are you that incredibly lazy? With the time it took you to encapsulate the word into double quotes you could have just checked the online free dictionary … That’s like Joker asking Batman to help him set the timer on his bomb under Gotham City Hall because he’s incompetent with electronics…Even your colleagues are shaking their heads at you for this one.
To: David Singleton; David … you deserve a retort all to your own. I don’t have to reread what I wrote, I remember it all. Part of the beauty of thinking about what you say before you say is that it tends to stick in your mind long enough to double check whether or not you’re making a fool out of yourself, and whether or not that is your intention. You should try it some time. I’m not actually an employee way down the line. I’m below executive / VP but I’m above middle management. I report to the CEO and the VP of the company directly. Now, I know what you’re saying… You ARE the CEO of your company. Well David, I’m proud of you. It’s nice to see a CEO who can make ends meet and troll the forums at the same time to help the little people like me learn the world. You’ve got so much to offer and I’m glad that you’re giving back to the community to help the simpletons like myself. Maybe when I have finished up school, completed my first degree (or plural because I love education) I might start up a Dynamics consulting business, or pursue another form of career. I’ll decide one way or another, what to do, later. For now I’ll continue to try and pave my way with ERP / SQL Support. Because paying for college on your own when you’re supporting yourself is difficult and running a company while you’re doing it all is nearly impossible, especially when you have a full time relationship going on. If I really wanted to age myself like cheese I suppose I could drop it all and just jump right into it. But I honestly don’t feel like I know enough about anything right now. Funny how that works out? You guys say I’m self-proclaimed brilliant, when those words were never uttered from my mouth, and yet I’m the only one who thinks I have a lot to learn. I couldn’t taste the irony anymore than if I bit into my finger and sucked the blood.
One thing I don’t have to learn is to cover my ass. No, David. They don’t blame me when things fall apart, they blame the partner and their developers for saying things like “That’s the way it works, deal with it”. I document really, really, well and communicate even better. I learned to do that a long time ago as a precaution against things going wrong and fault being directed to me… because that umbilical cord was menacing. I’ve also botched things up enough to learn from my mistakes and not repeat them. I’ll leave it at that.
Don’t get me wrong, I like it when people speak their mind, I just wish that the majority of people out there would take the time to “think” before they speak. Not spent 30 seconds on a blog to type something terribly inaccurate for no apparent reason, other than to spread slander in a disagreement that did not even involve them in the first place.
By the way – in case you all didn’t notice, my first post praised him for help… my second was simply defensive. I’m tired of people telling me “that’s just the way it is” … seriously? Are you actually going to try and take that stance with me? Please before you decide to stand on quicksand let me remind you of a list of people who fought that battle from my perspective and won:
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Christopher Columbus: “Guess what guys? The world isn’t flat!”
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Abraham Lincoln: “Let’s not enslave people, it’s wrong, we can live with the change.”
a. The American Public: “But Abe, if we do that, where will we find a new endless supply of expendable labor?”
b. Abe: “China.”
And by the way, if the rest of you read what DenSter wrote, he said, “yes you can change it you just have to go through this much effort to do it." You should realize you’ve all made yourselves look like fools for nothing, because his concession was in my favor. You all say I’m arguing with him about his NAV knowledge, but you’re wrong. I’m angry for a reason. I don’t like people telling me my ideas are shit for no better reason than “That’s just how it is”. It’s ok to prove somebody wrong, and say “Hey, that’s why we don’t do it that way”. It’s not ok to sit there and say “I should smack you around for your insufferable insolence heathen! Be penitent before your betters! HAH!”
Finally, let’s be honest. I don’t expect any of you to answer my posts going forward, I am pretty sure some of you were reading this, mouths agape but dissatisfied. Like somebody at your favorite Italian restaurant had just served you a, cold, dead, deer carcass, that met its end at the headlights of a semi-truck. I’m not legitimately out to offend anyone, but it’s my interpretation that a discussion form is for discussion. Maybe from now on I should shut my mouth and just put the NAV question up, no commentary from me just a, “Yes that’s the answer, thank you good bye”. Because my opinion is irrelevant and nothing I say will ever have any merit when I’m standing in the shadow of mental giants who are obviously my superior in every way. I should just be a robot and take what is given to me, and like it.
Tolerance… you all still have so much to learn. You are decades ahead of me in experience and age, but you are decades behind me in philosophy because you’ve already learned to be “accustomed”. That’s my rebuttal.
P.S. (I’ve toned this document down a lot, the previous versions were much too angry and I really feel like it could use some more modification to be less aggressive, but, whatever. I think it gets the point across. You guys really need to love more. Pride is a terrible thing to cling to…and don’t go telling me I need to take my own advice, you guys slung mud in my eye unprovoked)